Getting Your Girlfriend Back - A How to Guide

A break up can be a hard thing to handle. There are many reasons why a relationship can end. If you are the victim of a break up and you are interested in getting your girlfriend back, there are steps you can take to make that happen. They may take time and patience but if you really love her and think you can make it work, it can be well worth the effort.

It is important for you to look at who left who and why. If there was infidelity on your part, you may have no chance of getting your girlfriend back. But if you work at correcting the problems or issues that led to the break up and can prove to your girlfriend that you have honestly changed, then you may be able to woo her and start forging a new and stronger future together.

Here are a few things that you can do.

The first is to be patient. Women have long memories and it is a given that if you left her, she has had time to remember the things that upset her in the past. You need to be patient and accept that she will feel this way. Women are emotional beings and the things they feel are important, they simply cannot excuse negative emotions. They need to discuss them with you and be assured that old behavior patterns will not pop up again.

The second is to be honest. You need to be honest about things that happened in the past. If you were unfaithful, acknowledge it and assure her that it will not happen again. Expect that she will have a hard time trusting you. After all, if you were unfaithful, usually you were also dishonest about what happened in the time before you broke up. So, she will have a history of broken trust.

If she was the one who was unfaithful, you have to build up your own trust that she will be faithful to you and will not cheat again. This can be hard but if you are honest with her it will give you the chance to work through issues before they can break you up again.

Be willing to talk with your partner. Men are much less verbal than women but if you want to have a chance of getting your girlfriend back, you will need to be willing to talk. Only through talking can you work through problems that happened in the past or will happen in future. If you talk to her you can help her see that you are being honest and faithful, and you can also communicate to her what you are feeling if she was unfaithful or left you.

Getting your girlfriend back can take work, dedication and a willingness to talk things through. If you want to have a chance of working things out, you need to make sure that you are committed to forging a future together and that you are willing to let the past rest in the past.